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Thursday, June 14, 2007 @ 10:14 PM

KILL THE ROCKSTAR, SAVE THE PRESIDENT AND BE MERRY

In all seriousness...i hereby declare that i am a 24 year old virgin.

Not only am i not ashamed of it but also i have confidence in knowing i've had as much control of my sexuality as a 24 year old can in this day and age.

I'm not afraid to talk about sex because i'm not afraid of it. I have confronted it, we had a nice chat and i told it to bugger off for now, it's not the right time for me.

Sex is natural, spiritual and we have guidelines to use it in a personally, morally and socially responsible way. It is a priviliage, not a right. A privilage to married couples in monogomous relationships...

So anyways... i was on the train to work and since i didn't have my iPod shuffle with me, i like to try and either clear my head of all thoughts or think up acceptence speeches or sometimes i think of academicish stuff...

Then...bang! Virginity popped in my head from nowhere.

Virginity... usually brings up thought of wifeliness... there is that common phrase 'virgin bride' and by all means i think it's a good thing. but when was the last time someone took the time to think about virgin grooms?

I mean considering the accessibility to sex for young males here in SG and that more and more are doing it , I start to wonder... how many just won't admit they have had sex?

How important is it to the female that the guy be a virgin?

I mean it's not like you can prove or disprove a guy is a virgin... there is a greater and greater assumption that guys should have sex... and it does bug me from time to time.

Sex isn't important enough to be respected, but it's important enough to be had and in massive quantities... kinda like the ladies it's had with...

Hmm... do the ladies even appreciate that we go out of our way (which we actually have to sometimes ) to avoid sex, sexiness and sexificationocity?

It's so abundant these days that i'm suprised i don't fall into a pile of naked people when i'm surfing the internet avoiding all the porno ads... i mean really it's friggin everywhere and it's actually getting annoying... i mean heck!

I was even hit on by a gay guy once at Somerset ... i don't swing that way, but i'm sure i'm not the only guy to have that happen.

How important is a virgin groom? What's the value on my virginity? Do we realize how much we avoid sex to stay virgins?

I'm sure the better muslims out there don't think about sex enough to see it that way, to them it's just part of being good... for others who aren't on the straightest and narrowest paths, it's like being on the phone with a telemarketer...

I'll leave it here for now as my thoughts were never really fully formed.

P.S. No, i really don't know how that telemarketer analogy fits...